Mixed Signals · No. 8
What does “Fine. Go. Have fun” mean?
From Jamie, your partner, after you said you’d go to a friend’s birthday party without them
Fine. Go. Have fun.
It could mean
- Upset, and letting you go anyway
- Hurt, and hoping you’ll stay
- Truly fine, and wanting you to have fun
What was going on
Jamie had been hoping for a night in together and felt left out, but didn’t want to be the reason you stayed home.
This message and its story are made up. Real messages don’t come with the story.Ask before you answer
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Every message and story in Mixed Signals is made up.