Mixed Signals · No. 11
What does “Your call I guess” mean?
From Quinn, your roommate, after you asked if your partner could stay with you for a week
Your call I guess.
It could mean
- Uneasy, and not wanting to say no
- Annoyed that you asked
- Fine with it either way
What was going on
Quinn had finals that week and was worried about the noise, but didn’t want to seem unwelcoming.
This message and its story are made up. Real messages don’t come with the story.Ask before you answer
Text loses tone, so a short message can read harsher, or softer, than it was meant. Before you answer, ask what they meant. That’s Check before assuming, one of the principles Porcupine is built on.
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Every message and story in Mixed Signals is made up.